Blaming others is a temporary fix. Pointing a finger seems like a short cut, a clever distraction to avert ownership. It's not, no matter how justified your plight seems to be. Instead of offering freedom, projection creates a constant reflection of your denial. What you avoid internally ends up driving you and controlling your actions. These repressed emotions affect everything that crosses your path. You wouldn't be using that finger unless something is getting a little too close for comfort. It doesn't matter if predicaments are large or small; the bottom line is that something is eating away at you. Project means "to throw out or hurl away from or toward something else". It's a sneaky way to circumvent ownership of trouble, redirecting responsibility outside you and leaving it there. The term "scapegoat" aptly describes this function.

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| Next Exit Misery | Rules and Regulations Sign | Never Be Selfish | Avoid and Pretend | Live in Fear | Lie to Yourself and Others |
| React and Become Defensive | Rationalize, Analyze and Stuff | One Finger Out | Manipulate and Have Motives | Swim in Guilt |
| Anger, Resentment, Blame | Worry | Don't Risk | Surrender to Helplessness | Had Enough Misery? |
| Leaving Misery Behind | Selfishness, a Capital "S" | Stop Avoiding and Pretending | Face Fear | What's Wrong with Lying |
| Defensiveness | Rationalizing, Analyzing and Stuffings | Point One Finger Out | Quit Manipulating |
| Give Up Guilt | Releasing Anger, Resentment, and Blame | Put an End to Worry | Risking | Conclusion - Rutgar's Revenge |
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